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  • Sonia Rebecca Menezes
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  • March 15, 2026

    Condemned to Decide

    An essay about agentic vs mimetic people, using your lizard brain, and why outsourcing your judgment to AI is a values problem before it’s a technology one.

    internet, modern life, reflection
    ai, artificial-intelligence, chatgpt, technology, writing
  • March 5, 2026

    Of No Use: Ars Gratia Artis

    On the habit of asking everything to justify itself.

    art, culture, modern life, reflection
    books, education, life, oscar-wilde, writing
  • December 6, 2025

    And Probably Will Be For Life Trend

    This essay contains a couple of thoughts on the “In Your 20s, There Will Be” trend. I’m not entirely sure what it’s called, but if you’ve been on social media lately, you’ve definitely seen it.

    culture, internet, reflection
    books, life, love, mental-health, writing
  • November 2, 2025

    You Invented a Fake Ending to ‘You’ve Got Mail’

    Why so many of us mis-remember the ending of You’ve Got Mail because our brains fill in what comes next and the fact that we all come up with the same alt-ending probably says less about the movie and more about us.

    art, culture, internet, modern life
    books, life, love, movies, writing
  • October 26, 2025

    The Weight of Small Things

    On spending the day with my daughter and her friends on her 3rd birthday, and examining the myth of a carefree childhood.

    reflection
    family, fiction, life, love, writing
  • August 23, 2025

    Inconvenience Is the Price of Community but Also–

    Enough of these economics-inspired slogans.

    culture, internet, modern life, reflection
    healing, life, love, mental-health, writing
  • August 11, 2025

    We All Need a Version of Ourselves We Can Live With

    How we justify the decisions that shaped us, and what it takes to see ourselves honestly without falling apart.

    modern life, reflection
    faith, life, love, mental-health, writing
  • June 23, 2025

    Thinking in the Age of ChatGPT

    On whether AI-powered writing tools are helping us work smarter, or just helping us avoid thinking altogether, based on what MIT saw happening inside people’s heads.

    culture, internet, modern life
    ai, artificial-intelligence, chatgpt, technology, writing
  • June 9, 2025

    Growing Up Online

    A personal story about remote schooling in 2005, growing up online, and how the internet used to feel like a place instead of a product.

    creativity, culture, internet, reflection
    blog, life, love, mental-health, writing
  • May 27, 2025

    Annoying: A Love Language

    On being annoying and the exhausting lengths we go to seem otherwise. An essay about performance anxiety and trying to be chill.

    culture, reflection
    life, love, mental-health, relationships, writing
  • April 30, 2025

    The Age of Proof

    An essay about age, seriousness, and what we lose when we try too hard to get life right.

    modern life, reflection
    birthday, life, love, mental-health, writing
  • March 29, 2025

    This Is Why We Can’t Have Nice Ghiblis

    On the discourse about AI, Studio Ghibli, and why our obsession with imitation might say more about us than about the machines.

    art, creativity, internet
    anime, film, hayao-miyazaki, movies, studio-ghibli
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